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Book Review: Where Men Win Glory

Where Men Win Glory: The Odyssey of Pat TillmanWhere Men Win Glory: The Odyssey of Pat Tillman by Jon Krakauer

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I remember hearing about Pat Tillman and his decision to join the army after September 11, 2001. I had no idea at the time that I was just another unassuming American being sold on a war by the US Government and the US media. I am glad that on a whim I picked this book off the new additions shelf a the library.

This book was absolutely fascinating in two ways. The first is obvious: Pat Tillman was a remarkable man. He was patriotic and tough. He was unmaterialistic, almost anti-materialistic, and that is why it wasn’t a big deal for him to walk away from his NFL contract and sign up to be a soldier. He was loyal. He stayed with his same girlfriend through high school, college, and the rest of us his cut-short life. One of my favorite parts of Pat’s story was how he gave up a 9 million dollar contract with another NFL team way before he went to war. He was loyal to the coaches and team that gave him his first chance at professional football in the 7th draft, and he wasn’t even worried that he lost millions. But, I already told you that he wasn’t materialistic. What a breathe of fresh air in today’s stuff-saturated society.

Pat is a hero to me. He’s an unlikely hero for me. He was agnostic and almost self centered. However he was smart and confident. In reading this book he wasn’t portrayed as the selfless guy that I imagined him to be, but as a high risk junkie. I am not sure if I liked that. I know that just as this book made me non-trusting of the government and news networks, I am also now untrusting of the story teller. No one man can ever write enough to really let you know a man you never met. I will tell you this, after reading about Pat Tillman’s life, I would have loved to be able to sit down with him and discuss ideas. He was a philosophy kind of guy…always testing ideas. This is why he is a hero to me. I like thinkers.

Interestingly, Pat never wanted to be paraded through the streets as the guy who believed in the war, and this is precisely the reason I chose to read his biography in the first place. In fact, Pat was disenchanted with the war. He joined to go and find Bin Laden and kill him, and Pat was pissed when his whole first tour turned into Bush’s ulterior motives of defeating Sadam Hussein and Iraq. As a naive American, I never knew that warheads were made up by our government just to use the 9/11 opportunity to defeat a country we felt was a threat. But, Iraq was never a terrorist threat like the Taliban and Al Qaeda members harbored in Afghanistan and Pakistan. Iraq just happened to be a convenient neighbor close enough to Bin Laden to rally Americans to attack. I finished this book, also pissed that I had been dooped into fighting the wrong war and upset that our government wasn’t more successful at finding every last terrorist and wiping them into oblivion.

The second facet I loved about this book is that it was a living history lesson. It was a lesson to me about world events that I was never in touch with. I learned all kinds of stuff about the middle east and our foreign affairs with them; things I am ashamed I never took the time to know before. The way that the story was written as a go between of a fascinating soldier and a fact telling story was especially effective at keeping my attention. I would never just pick up a daunting tell all of middle eastern events, but mixed in with the story of Pat Tillman, made it all the more fascinating and relevant, for this ignorant US citizen who tries to keep US politics at bay.

Good read. It is recommended by me for all kinds of people: People who like world history, US Politics, the National Football League, the US Military, war histories, the Middle East, terrorist plots, or just plain old philosophy.

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Sconan or Cott

I originally gave this post the title of
Scott and Conan Cruze Rock.
But, then I realized that maybe
I should have entitled it
Conan and Scott Cruze Rock.
How should I choose who to reference first?
I had a very humbling experience on Saturday.
Just when my husband needed it most,
another man showed up
with or without his phone.
Probably with.
(What is it with men and their gadgets?)
I’ll show you my phone,
if you show me yours.
Actually
there were two men that showed up.
And they look identical.
Even though they aren’t identical.
But, their hearts are identically huge.
And this woman cried
because she was so completely happy
that her husband
has two of the best friends
known to mankind.
They used to be referred to as
Sconan.
By my in-laws.
But, that was when they were 10.
I guess they thought
that Sconan sounded better than Cott.
I think that these two have
earned to be called
by their own
given names.
I love these men
and their wives
with all my heart.
And I am always amazed
at the wisdom of
my husband.
Even when choosing
lifelong best friends
at a very young age,
he keenly
understood
that
two
are
always
better
than
one.

Book Review: Defensive Tactics

Defensive TacticsDefensive Tactics by Steve Westover

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

You can buy the book for yourself HERE.

Lately in my life I have been learning about boundaries. How to set healthy ones because I am bad at it. Who knew I could read a work of fiction to help me figure out this concept of boundaries? I guess I’ve always known that fiction crosses over, but it’s always completely awe- inspiring when a work of fiction can help me with decisions I must make in my own life.

I thought that this book was just going to be another action thriller about a couple of FBI agents, but it was so much more than that. It was a perfect example of what good boundaries can do for a person who desperately needs them. It was also a great lesson that boundaries alone are not enough; an adult, just like a child, has to have unconditional love to flourish.

The three main characters, Jimmy, Paul, and Emily were all AWESOME in their own way. I loved each of them and could relate to each of them, even though they were all completely different. Jimmy was a bright and amazing guy who was in a troubled time of life. He was floundering for good reason. I am against writing spoilers, but if what happened to him, happened to me, I don’t know if I could get out of bed ever again. Paul was the perfectionist in me. He aimed to please and was a good rule keeper, but he was deep down completely insecure. Emily was every woman that we want to have depicted in a novel, smart, feminine, kind, gutsy, and more than anything, confident.

These three characters made a dynamic tale of love and friendship. My hat goes off to the author, Steve Westover, for his wonderful character development. Although the plot in the story was a bit predictable, I still really enjoyed the quick read.

Back to the boundaries. Jimmy was able to completely change his life around and tap into his under-appreciated strengths for two reasons: Paul’s healthy boundaries and un-apologetic expectations combined with Emily’s infinite and unconditional love.

This book was so much more than a private investigator story of mystery and action, it was a perfect love story. A love triangle that left everyone happy. Including this reader.

My hat is off to Steve Westover for his successful first novel.

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For inquiring minds or the FTC – I was given, for free, a copy of this book to review. But, to the best of my ability, I did not let this fact effect my honest evaluation and review. Even when my copy had the author’s autograph. 🙂
Go here to see what the author of Defensive Tactics thought of my review. I loved what he had to say.

The Captain of the Bee One Four

We have a friend whom we love and honor.
And respect immensely.
I was so relieved when he came home safe from
his stint in The War on Terror.
His name is Joe Hinson.
And he is the Captain of the Bee One Four.
And his son, who made this video, has a remarkable sense of humor.
As do all the Hinsons.
What can I say?
We funnies are attracted to each other.
I would have loved to be at Joe’s rank advancement ceremony
and watched the faces of his fellow servicemen
watching this video.
It’s awesome.
Purely awesome.
And funnier
if you know beforehand
that Joe is a good good guy.
He doesn’t swear.
Hardly ever.
Probably never.

Constitutional Rights

I will not even claim to be an expert on the topic.
LeGrand came home from law school one day
saying that he could study the U.S. Constitution the rest of his life
and still not be an expert.
I base everything off of my own experience.
And if LeGrand could study something
for his whole life
and still not be an expert,
I know that thing is complicated.
So,
because of my own experience,
I know how inspired our Constitution is.
Because LeGrand is uber smart.
I just read this speech
by Dallin H. Oaks.
He was a professor at the University of Chicago,
a Supreme Court Justice in Utah,
and is now an Apostle of the Lord.
How amazing it would be
to be that wise.
I’m not.
Never will be,
at least not in this lifetime.
I, however, am good with people.
I love people.
I love their stories.
The other day
as I was checking out at the grocery store,
I hit it off with our bagger.
She had an accent.
Through my great interrogation skills,
I found out she was originally from
The Soviet Union.
She has been in the States for 6 years.
She was adopted from an orphanage at 10 years old.
This hit home
because for some reason,
I only had Abigail with me.
Abigail is 11,
and she was very interested
in this girl,
when I pointed out
that she was Abigail’s age
when arriving in America.
And her English was awesome.
I asked her if she missed her home country.
She quickly said, “No.”
I questioned further with, “why?”
She said one word:
freedom.
She knew what she was talking about.
She said,
“over there I was stuck in an orphanage.”
“Here I have a family,
a good job,
a good life.
I live a dream life.”
What more do you need
to know that our Constitution
was divinely inspired?
And
that
freedom
still
rings.
Even
if
it
doesn’t
seem
to
ring
as
loud.